YSunday, April 02, 2006
after much recommendation from people's blogs
finally I took the effort of visiting Kian's blog
pretty glad I did it
great blog ...
found some interesting topics there
anyway , I read his last entry about the teens stuff
and I must say that I totally agree
this is why :
I actually felt curious of adult's view of what 'we' teens have to say
so I actually showed the post to my mum
who happenned to just read yet another newspaper article about the teens
titled " Teens' secret life "
her opinion was :
he [kian] was just angry at the news ..
then she looked at me as though I have my own secret life as a drug dealer ...
conclusion :
newspaper IS a powerful tool to actually contaminate the adult's mind ...
it seems that what the news says has more effect than of what we said nowadays
what I'm trying to say is that ..
what other teens do , doesn't mean that ALL the teens will do
but because of the pressure of what society said about us ..
we sometimes actually act to what they had to say ..
it's simple really
for example :
if let's say just because of our appearance ,
the way we dress up in public ,
the way we behave in public [which is not possible if they expect us to be angels all the time ,
the way we talk [especially kids in SG , no offence guys , but you guys seems to be non-exixtent without mentioning the word fuck in every sentece] ,
the way we usually handle things ,
even the way we walk ...
it is 'truly' amazing how adults are able to define our characteristic from our daily behaviour without even communicating to us ..
when we say : u don't know me ,
actually , before we even get the chance to say that ,
their answer : don't even think of saying u don't know me! what is it about you that I don't know? I was there since you were born !!
Yeah ... you get the messagge ..
Here's what I have to say
maybe we too , should look at things on the bright side
they abuse our teen-period-freedom [which they went through themselves] by writing those articles [bad ones] which addresses to ALL the teens ,
maybe because they are unsatisfied of what their childhood has offered them ..
we can't blame them for that , can we?
or .. maybe they are fascinated by the teens which they find intriguing that the way teens behave or how they can survive by their inconsistent decisions in their lives ...
hey .. that's what makes our lives challenging :p
or finally .. the fact that they 'really' 'actually' have no other topics which they can twist and turn to make an interesting article in the eye of the public ..
I mean .. could you say no if the topic is regarding of those such as yourselves [same age , same dilemmas] or when it's about your teenage child which has seldomly confide to you since their 15th birthday?
Okay .. here's the deal
You are you ..
No matter what crap the news said about teens which probably changed your parents opinion about you ..
Just be yourself
Do what you think is fun and enjoyable as long as you are responsible for what you've done
Losing your virginity and such ..
Hell that's your freakin' problem
No matter what happen ,
Remember to respect ..
You will need their guidance until the end of your journey whether you like it or not
In their presence ,
You are always wrong and they are always right ..
If you want to voice out your crap ,
Do that later on will ya?
know the timing
Or should I say ...
Silence is golden ..
When we're in their house , we're abide by their rules ..
But later on .. which should be soon enough ..
They will be bored to death seeing us that they will kick us out of the house and then ...
say hello to the world ..
hahas ..
Opinions taken
no hard feelings
listen to them
respect them
live life to e fullest
then you should be able to stay alive to see your first grand kid ^^
Don't stress on this topic to much ..
Coz' our look maybe irresistible ,
but sometimes our foolishness is irrecusable
And while our our adrenaline pump are irreducible [obviously] ,
our parents are irreplaceable and we still have to respect them
I know that their answers may sometime be irrelevant and adults are irritable ,
but they did pay our irreclaimable daily fees and caused them irrecoverable heartaches
But even though our body fats are irremoveable and our future irresolute ,
our hearts and feelings are irrefutable ...
And remember ,
if the world ain't suck ,
we would all fall off ..
cherios
promiscuous